Delta Community Action Team
Connect to Understand
Connect with Joe
Connecting with others isn’t just about companionship—it’s about truly seeing people beyond assumptions. Everyone carries silent struggles shaped by expectations, fears, or pressures we might not recognize. Our minds instinctively fill in gaps, but when we assume too much, we risk misunderstanding and leaving people unseen. Connect with Joe offers a closer look at how unrealistic expectations impact men, revealing the importance of open dialogue and empathy. The film highlights how vulnerability fosters connection, reminding us that openness isn’t a weakness—it’s the key to support and understanding. When we listen with curiosity, we create relationships that allow people to share their truth, easing the weight of unspoken battles.
Connecting with Delta Residents:
Our Voices Matter Report
“My emotional toll of stigma is significant. I was coping with negative stereotypes and discrimination that lead to chronic stress and self-doubt.”
“Feeling judged, misunderstood, or labeled by others often contributed to my experience of stigma, especially when there was a lack of awareness or empathy about my situation.”
5 steps to Understand
1 / Recognize the Feeling
Pause and identify what you're feeling. Frustration, anger, confusion, or indignation often stem from misunderstandings. Acknowledge it honestly.
2 / Explore Your Thoughts
What story are you telling yourself about the situation? Are you assuming someone's intent without knowing the full picture?
3 / Consider Other Possibilities
Was that barista truly being rude, or could there be other explanations? Maybe they were distracted, tired, or facing personal challenges. Expanding your perspective can shift your emotional response.
4 / Let Go of the Need for Certainty
Accept that multiple truths exist, and you may never fully know someone’s circumstances. Holding onto negative emotions can block connection. Even if someone was rude, their behavior reflects their own struggles—not your worth.
5 / Create an Opportunity for Connection
Engage with openness instead of judgement. A kind word, a smile, or a small gesture—like leaving a thank-you message—can open doors to better understanding. Sometimes, all it takes is a conversation to change your assumptions.
